We have a name that has never, in our 52 years, spoken to who we are.
We have a dysfunctional claim to Congregational Polity, though some of the membership accounting and so much of the business is dictated from Boston.
We have congregational authority to ordain ministers, granting any sage or fool the title of “Reverend”, yet the UUA sets a high bar for “fellowship” that ensures that only the politically savvy and financially committed receive the blessing of medical care and the chance at a secure retirement.
We have several national campaigns with political focus that, while reflecting our values in general, take the focus off the congregations and the individuals and put them on “issues”.
We have 7 Principles that have no spirit in them, and sound like a UN resolution.
We have 6 sources, but no one cares if you ignore any of them, unless the one you ignore is the one they take personally.
We have 5 “Smooth Stones” which have depth and meaning, but aren’t all that accessible without interpretation and aren’t officially part of the bylaws the way the Principles and Sources are (though they are folded into the sources and they are cannibalized for the Principles.)
What we don’t have is an identity.
What we don’t have is unity of purpose. (Is it possible to be a Unitarian Universalist without “humanist”, “Christian”, “Pagan” or some other modifier?)
What we don’t have is a focus on personal growth and development.
We have a problem, and we keep trying to act as though it is the solution.
We claim to want to be “A religion for our time”, while failing, by most standards, to be a religion at all.
I love the promise of Unitarian Universalism, but it is a promise that is not being kept; potential being squandered.
I am not alone in being disillusioned by the traditions and momentum of our religion. Most young adults seem to share some of these concerns. Some are content to wait until we inherit leadership. A few are trying to work with the system. There have been Unitarian Universalist, even among our clergy, claiming that we have no future. I refuse to just watch. I refuse to simply wait for my turn. I refuse to “work with” a system that clearly doesn’t work.
I am evangelical about my liberal faith, grounded in multiple sources and aspiring to create a kind of heaven here on Earth; a bloved community of equals. My faith is not what Unitarian Universalism is today, but what we have today won’t last another 20 years if we don’t find and embrace a center. We cannot be “a religion for our time” if what we focus on is politics. We cannot expect people to come to us if we don’t focus on people. We cannot expect spiritual leadership from politicians and “organizers”. We need to be bold in our faith, so that we can find it again, if we ever hope to make it into something we can share.
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